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Friday
23
MAR

WOMEN ALIVE circle ~ My Inner Masculine

19:30
22:15
Zee van Licht
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WOMEN ALIVE circle ~ My Inner Masculine.

We all crave for healthy relationships. This first Friday of astronomical spring, (yeeey!) will be about connecting to the male aspect within ourselves.
~AS IN - AS OUT ~ How we relate to our INNER masculine, determines our relationships with OUTER men around us . It is deeply rooted in the quality of the bond we have/had with the first & most important love relationships in our lives: with our FATHER.

We will investigate deeper into the theme by inquiry, sharing stories, movement, contact & touch exercises, looking at patterns we might be repeating, have shifted or intend to shift and maybe a little ritual. Inspiring each other with our journeys...

To me this is a very special & vulnerable evening....
I have booked this date for a new circle before realising that 23 March is exactly the 3rd death anniversary of my father, who i haven't seen for 13 years before his death...So the theme for the evening came easily as soon as i knew...As many of the women i know, i did not have a healthy relationship with my dad, who was an abusive alcoholic. Healing that relationship within myself has been a red thread throughout my life and still is work in progress :), but i have come a long way already and am willing to dive deeper together with whoever feels like it <3
I welcome you totalllllly, wholeheartedly and a bit excitedly.
No experience needed and all is welcome ! All info below.
Much love,
Kinga
<3

IMPORTANT************COMING SOOOOOOON************!!!

1. I am offering a FOUR-FOLD (Vierluik) for women :
~ "Radical Self- Inclusion" ~ ;) of 2x Friday evening + 2x Sunday afternoon in Mei/June. Theme can still change a bit and fb event is coming soon. Please let me know if you are interested so i keep you personally updated. Dates: 06/05~13:30, 11/05~19.30, 25/05~19.30, 03/06~13.30.

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WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW AND BE PREPARED FOR before further reading is that I do not tend to 'take' you to "nice and cosy places" only...
I might gently or spontaniously invite you to leave your comfort zone, so that you can question your beliefs once more and maybe even redefine them...so that you can explore areas you not easly enter otherwise..
I might challenge you to visit places in yourself that you might have abandoned or condemned for a loooong time, that are longing to be revisited, rediscoverd, awakend, seened and freed again...embracing all hidden parts of yourself as one perfect you.
It might stir you up, it might bring old pains, fear & judgements up, it might even not be for you at all.
Even if not always only pleasant, I believe that leaving the comfortable is often where the magic occurs.
And what is a better place to go there- than with a loving tribe of sisters...?
And off course - it is totally up to you, whether you take the invitation to jump in, or stay where its is comfortable if that feels best for you!...Whatever your need is, is where you go :) I'm just a space keeper for what you are ready to unraveled.
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PRACTICAL INFORMATION :

When: Friday 23.03.2018, 19:30 - 22.15 ( door opens 19:15 and we may finish max 22.30)
Location: "Zee van Licht" Hellingweg 98, Den Haag ( at the water side!!! where the boats are, take extra time in account, it is tricky to find )
http://www.zeevanlicht.com/
What to take: warm socks and whoever you think might like to be with us :)
Contribution: Depending on your capacity : €17.50 - €25 paid in advance at : NL44INGB0685460398 to K.M. Sidor. This is how you save your spot. Price at the door in cash is 25€!
P.s. If money is an issue please contact me for a solution or an exchange.
Register: ONLY through mail or mobile! ( reacting on this event is great to keep an eye on track, but u still need to confirm properly to save your spot):
kingam.sidor@gmail.com ; 0624846194 (sms/app)
Cancellation policy: Up to 24h before - money refund, after that no refund.
Please be on time as the door closes at 12.30! Location is tricky to find so please be aware of that in your time calculations :) Feel free to invite friends.
Yeay!
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WHAT TO EXPECT ?

Depending on the group and our needs each circle is a different exploration. There is a theme for each evening, but be prepared for a slight change of plans if the flow wants to take us somewhere else. I more & more often have no fixed plan beforehand and am free flowing at the moment, allowing the evening to unfold in a natural way.
We might: breathe, dance, move, meditate, sing, sound, share, rest, learn, touch, ground, visualise, massage, express whatever needs to be expressed.
We will most probably not talk much...but rather deep dive into experience, from head to body...with little words and a lot of sensing.
Notice: Dance and touch is a steady component of every circle.
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♥ Sweet Woman ♥

Imagine...
A safe place with other sisters.
Where you are totally welcome as you are.
Where we connenct beyond the names, jobs or social statuses. Where we nourish, heal, trully see & hear each other.
Where we lough, cry, or scream if needed and do not judge one another.
A place called home.
A place where we can be fully alive...numb...or insane even.
Where we embrace all that we are.
Where there's no must and no to do lists.
A place of rest and of acceptance and of resistance and so much more.
Where there is fire and there is passion or just stagnation and confusion .
A place called heart. A female heart.
Huge like a mountain.
Deep like the ocean...
I will meet you there.
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Are you alive sweet woman?
I mean...
...are you A L I V E?
Do you dare to be you?
Do you regularly take time to charge & discharge your batteries?
Do you accept all that you are...and enjoy it ?

WHO AM I :
For a long time I thought I was so alive - parties, alcohol, cigarettes, nights working behind a bar, fast and exciting life, short relationships and social connections. Looking nice for the outside world maybe, but in fact a lot of it was empty and superficial...it didn't truly feed me and I felt incomplete. One of my favorite teachers Marya Charlotte Norell uses a term:
" Dead Woman Walking".
Yes.
I was that woman.
Living but really feeling dried out, as if I was missing out on life. As if i had to try harder and faster and it was never good enough.
The truth is that I was so afraid of being intimate with myself that I would try like crazy to avoid that. I also felt so uncomfortable in my feminine skin that I was hardened into a very masculine " I can do it on my own" attitude. Not letting people in. Being afraid of my feelings, borders and vulnerability. And lonely as hell.

WHY WOMEN CIRCLES :
During the last 10 years I took many different healing paths ( reiki, yoga, intuitieve development, aura & chakra healings & readings, shamanism, tantra) .
The biggest shift came 4,5 years ago when my focus was drown towards women work for good and i consciously started to develop my contact with the woman in me ( last 2 years of which i spent mostly assisting in a programs & workshops for Women and also followed 8 month - long Women Facilitator Training). In many trainings I began to gently 're-awaken' Her up...Her self- love, innocence, sexuality, intuition, creativity, my lust for life, hunger for passion, true joy and pleasure, wildness, rawness, radical honesty, softness, sensuality, surrender, receptivity and so much more...allowing al to show up...and embracing it more and more every day.
What a deep healing journey She took me on...
Being with other sisters had been and is so unbelievably soothing for my system. So deeply healing, inspiring and transforming to my body & soul.
And it can be so juicy and joyful and fun oooh la la :)
I am becoming my own best caretaker, who can feel fully and still stay centered.
Who's self- sufficient and yet embraces her desires for intimate relationships with others...
Who can firmly hold herself and still allows others to supported her when needed and nowadays even if not needed ;)...
But most importantly...I am not alone anymore.
I have gained an amazing network of sisters who hold me through highs and lows in my life...and I am deeply grateful for the gift of their presence in my life!!!

My woman is alive again.

And NO...not always and it's not only roses and sweetness!
But i maintain the practice of connecting with her.
Daily.
And she loves it, even if still not always trusting i will stay.
And she opens to life and love more & more .
And I love it.
And I want to share it with you, because oh my - how powerful and wise we are, when we join our forces and our hearts together!
Just bathing in each other presence replenishes our batteries and makes the world a better place.
And when multiplied, this soft feminine power can move mountains effortlessly.

May every woman in the world be free to live her life in joys and safety .
This is my prayer .


You are so welcome sweet woman
Kinga

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All past circles until now :
09.09.2016 - element: EARTH
( 1st chakra, safety, body, grounding, relaxation, being.vs doing, roots)
14.10.2016 - element: WATER
( 2nd chakra, yoni & womb, emotions, sexuality, movement, desires, pleasure)
11.11.2016 - element: FIRE
( 3rd chakra, power, say, self- esteem, self- worth, borders, inner lioness)
09.12.2016 - element: AIR
( 4th chakra, self- love, relationships, vulnerability, inner child, inner masculine & feminine)
20.01.2017 - "EXPRESS YOURSELF"- 5th Chakra
( self-expression, speaking your truth, voice, honesty, radical forgiveness ( speaking it up), clearness, comunication)
17.02.2017 - "INNER VISION" - 6th Chakra
( intuition, visions, dreams, fantasy, insight, trusting your own perception)
17.03.2017 - "DIVINITY" - 7th Chakra
( trust, gratefulness, surrender, beliefs, onness, inner knowing, divinity, wisdom)
14.04.2017 - " SHAKTI - the WILD THING" - celebrating ALL of you - all 7 chakra's
19.05.2017 - " SENSUAL WOMAN"- awakening the senses..
... and summer break...
31.10.2017 - " LOOSE YOUR S***"- evening.
19.11.2017 - " LOOSE YOUR S***"- afternoon.
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TESTIMONIALS

“I feel so much lighter. Thank you dear Kinga!”

“Thank you for facilitating us to open up to femininity, I’ll be back.”
“Loving her…♥ .” Kirstin

“Dank je wel voor de mooie en bijzondere avond lieve Kinga! Super wat je doet ♥ ”
“Helemaal opgeladen naar huis..!” Heleen

“Lieve schat, dank je wel! Vrijheid, veiligheid, zachtheid.” ♥ Nicole

“Bedankt voor de prachtige ervaring. Eeuwig dankbaar. Kus.” Shila

“Sweet Kinga. I had no expectations when joined your circle for the first time - I got to hand it to you- You blew of my mind! Love & light.” Anette

“How I miss this contact with women. It feeds me with belonging, connection and attention. Thank you for the powerful flow of this beautiful evening. I want more!. ♥ Sara

“Lieve Kinga! ♥ I’m so absolutely thankful and happy inside that i came tonight! I had totally not expected it, now I’m fully connected and present…! Thank you all! ♥ .“ Love, Jovanna

“Hmmmmmmm….weer heerlijk alles wakker & lekker & koester & lief & mniam & open &…Lekker van MIJ genoten! Wat een lekker lijf ♥ “Mila

“Lieve mooie Kinga. Dank je voor de mogelijkheid. Dit voelt zo goed, helpt, voelt heel puur. Jouw begeleiding vind ik erg fijn, zacht, vrouwelijk, duidelijk, vooral heel puur. Thnxxxxxxx.” Charlotte.

“When we are open to give what we know we all miss, a look, a touch, a soft embrace, the world would be a(n even) better place. Aho to the human race! What a lovely work, amazing impact…beyond ♥.” Desiree

“Tijdens de tweede helft voelde ik opeens na een heerlijke ademhaling de veiligheid en vielen de barrières van ongemak van me af. Een heerlijke ervaring. Een fijne avond. Dank!” Minu

“Surrender. Trust. Receive. What an energy, what an opportunity to release, let go, continue giving, but knowing you will get back even more. Thank you. Trust yourself, you are made for this Kinga.” ♥ ♥ ♥ Schobsi.

“Lieve, mooie, krachtige vrouw. Wat een heerlijke avond. Ik had het voor geen goud willen missen. Dit is een mooi moment in mijn leven. Een beging van al het nieuws en al het ouds waarnaar ik terug lijk te gaan (her-ontdekkend van mezelf). Je bent heel zacht, maar ook ZO krachtig. Een mooie inspiratie! DANK! ♥ “ Liza

“Heel erg bedankt voor deze mooie avond. Ik was erg zenuwachtig en vond het eerste contact (toen alleen nog oogcontact) erg spannend. Door de rustige manier waarop het opgebouwd werd kon ik langzaam loskomen. Nu loop ik de deur uit met een ontspannen lach en geef zelfs knuffels aan vrouwen die ik voor vanavond nog nooit gezien had. Dank je wel, dit is mooi! Love you all – xxx- Lucia

“Lieve, mooie, sterke, zachte, oprechte, leergierige, open, krachtige, wijze Kinga. Mijn eerste vrouwencirkel bij jou was zo fijn, zacht en voedend. Het hart als thema. Mooi- de twee cirkels van de Shiva’s en Shakti’s. Dansen voor elkaar…zo veilig voelde ik mij. En dat komt door de setting/ de veilige bedding die jij gaf. De helende handen op mijn rug/ hart, de schoot waar ik in mocht liggen bij mijn mooie Poolse sister, het energie werk, prachtige ondersteunende muziek erbij, lekkere thee met lekkers. De rust en vertrouwen die je die avond uitstraalde was zo fijn om in te zijn. Daardoor kon ik ook zakken. Ik ben trots op jou jij mooie vrouw. Ik voel me rustig en vredig. Stil van binnen vol vertrouwen. Ook geïnspireerd om nog meer te gaan durven neerzetten. Dank je lieverd dat je deze mooie cirkel voor je sisters neerzet. I love you sister.” Corina